Comments on: What Women Want in Men http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php Improving Our "Signals" and "Beings" Sun, 18 Sep 2011 15:07:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Mo http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8561 Mo Tue, 30 Dec 2008 17:11:09 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8561 Joe's comment is complete bullshit when he or she talks about women want men that have money. Women want a man that is successful just as men want their women to also be successful but both men and women need to define what is successful. I would say mainly women need to define their term successful. There are so many women that have this requirment list for their men and SUCCESSFUL always is on the list. Well women define what success means to you!!! It seems that a lot of women have this illusionary picture of their men being this great success and always bringing home the money. Yes there are tons of men that are successful including myself but at the same time with an economy as bad as it is even the most successful people can be laid off at the snap of a finger. Then when women find that the men have possibly been laid off and wasn't his fault but they seem to want to put the blame on him and say oh it was his fault he is not successful which is also complete bullshit. Women need to realize that everyone men and women are susceptible to being laid off and not ones fault except the business they worked for. Also these women that have this big DREAMY vision of their men simply bringing home the money and being this HUGE success is just that a DREAM and these women are the young inexperienced women that have not been in the "real world" and don't have experience themselves. Success is not built magically or just over night and poof the man or woman instantly have money. Success takes time, effort, a lot of grit and hard work and also trial and error. So yes everyone wants and has dreams of having lots and tons of MONEY but it takes a lot of work and effort to do so!! Joe’s comment is complete bullshit when he or she talks about women want men that have money. Women want a man that is successful just as men want their women to also be successful but both men and women need to define what is successful. I would say mainly women need to define their term successful. There are so many women that have this requirment list for their men and SUCCESSFUL always is on the list. Well women define what success means to you!!!

It seems that a lot of women have this illusionary picture of their men being this great success and always bringing home the money. Yes there are tons of men that are successful including myself but at the same time with an economy as bad as it is even the most successful people can be laid off at the snap of a finger. Then when women find that the men have possibly been laid off and wasn’t his fault but they seem to want to put the blame on him and say oh it was his fault he is not successful which is also complete bullshit. Women need to realize that everyone men and women are susceptible to being laid off and not ones fault except the business they worked for.

Also these women that have this big DREAMY vision of their men simply bringing home the money and being this HUGE success is just that a DREAM and these women are the young inexperienced women that have not been in the “real world” and don’t have experience themselves.

Success is not built magically or just over night and poof the man or woman instantly have money. Success takes time, effort, a lot of grit and hard work and also trial and error. So yes everyone wants and has dreams of having lots and tons of MONEY but it takes a lot of work and effort to do so!!

]]> By: Jas' http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8545 Jas' Fri, 19 Dec 2008 05:40:30 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8545 Good article, although the part where it says women are not primarily attracted to look isn't correct. Don't know if I was just lucky but at 6'2" I apparently have the rugged look going on I often get complimented on my looks. I've always pretty much been with attractive women -just feels like we're more on the same page I don't know, and yeah, physical attraction is a big part of wanting to be with your partner. I think it's pretty natural to seek out attractive partners, not only for physical and emotional fulfillment. Of course that's not the only thing needed and if you have nothing else going it will do you no good but you're definitely right when you say attractive men also tend to have OTHER attractive qualities, and it's these qualities that you should want for yourself ultimately, regardless of your look. Good article, although the part where it says women are not primarily attracted to look isn’t correct. Don’t know if I was just lucky but at 6’2″ I apparently have the rugged look going on I often get complimented on my looks. I’ve always pretty much been with attractive women -just feels like we’re more on the same page I don’t know, and yeah, physical attraction is a big part of wanting to be with your partner. I think it’s pretty natural to seek out attractive partners, not only for physical and emotional fulfillment. Of course that’s not the only thing needed and if you have nothing else going it will do you no good but you’re definitely right when you say attractive men also tend to have OTHER attractive qualities, and it’s these qualities that you should want for yourself ultimately, regardless of your look.

]]> By: wendy http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8431 wendy Fri, 24 Oct 2008 05:18:35 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8431 :mrgreen: i totally agree with everything that was said! it isn't logical its just fact! if any guy reads this and doesn't heed this advice they are just setting themselves up for failure! couldn't have said it better myself! simple, straight to the point and true! i've had many experiences! :mrgreen: i totally agree with everything that was said! it isn’t logical its just fact! if any guy reads this and doesn’t heed this advice they are just setting themselves up for failure! couldn’t have said it better myself! simple, straight to the point and true! i’ve had many experiences!

]]> By: Kubi http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8254 Kubi Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:57:53 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8254 :neutral: it´s not about the "who is what" in the dating world, or even wen we get into the long haul, strong relationships. needy, shallow, emo, crazy, freaky, whatever...your completly missing the point here. these ideas or patterns by DeAngelo will in fact aid you in "picking" your partner having more to chose from. yes cause its all about choice... "beautifull" men and women are able to CHOoSE! "not this one", "not that one", ok then.. "maybe that on over there, or maybe not". my friends CHOOSING is NOT a right that you have! like wen your buying a t-shirt... being able to pick wich partner you want from a crowd is a freeking previledge. Notice "beautifull" in "" cause ofc good looks helps a lot, but you dont need to have them. these tips TEACH you how to empower yourself, how to put yourself 1st, how to be confident thus making you desirable! making you an asset, lighting the bulb in women's head, trigering the ( priciple of scarcity ... by DeAngelo ) <=== <3 that one :smile: , ultimatly making you "beautifull". who cares is if this one girl dosent rock your world, or dosnt care about you, go get another one just because you can. the true POWER in life is having the POWER to choose!!! no matter what we are talking about it aplies to everything. i know it may sound cold, and kinda jerki but ive been 9 years with someone, who i loved, and now its over. but my life is not.. so no point in felling sorry for your self. just get the tools you need to back in action and believe this might actualy help :neutral: it´s not about the “who is what” in the dating world, or even wen we get into the long haul, strong relationships.

needy, shallow, emo, crazy, freaky, whatever…your completly missing the point here. these ideas or patterns by DeAngelo will in fact aid you in “picking” your partner having more to chose from.

yes cause its all about choice… “beautifull” men and women are able to CHOoSE! “not this one”, “not that one”, ok then.. “maybe that on over there, or maybe not”.
my friends CHOOSING is NOT a right that you have! like wen your buying a t-shirt… being able to pick wich partner you want from a crowd is a freeking previledge.

Notice “beautifull” in “” cause ofc good looks helps a lot, but you dont need to have them.
these tips TEACH you how to empower yourself, how to put yourself 1st, how to be confident thus making you desirable! making you an asset, lighting the bulb in women’s head, trigering the ( priciple of scarcity … by DeAngelo ) <=== <3 that one :smile: , ultimatly making you “beautifull”.

who cares is if this one girl dosent rock your world, or dosnt care about you, go get another one just because you can. the true POWER in life is having the POWER to choose!!! no matter what we are talking about it aplies to everything.

i know it may sound cold, and kinda jerki but ive been 9 years with someone, who i loved, and now its over.
but my life is not.. so no point in felling sorry for your self.
just get the tools you need to back in action and believe this might actualy help

]]> By: joe http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8207 joe Sat, 30 Aug 2008 17:42:06 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8207 I would say looks play an important role in a relationship. Both for men and women. However, beauty/looks are more important for women. Men on the other hand, need to only have a below average look. But, make sure you have a good career that comes along with good $! Women would say, I don't mind if his not rich, but trust me they do mind. To me LOVE can be bought with $, attraction can be bought with $. I am saying this to those men who are looking for hot beautiful women. For those who disagree are not attractive because the first thing that turns you on or wanting to know that girl is her LOOKS. and if you have $ you would be able to get to her and keep her. Trust me, gals are materialistic, they might say I am not because for several reason: 1. The girl knows she is not attractive and knows her reach of what kind of men she could get 2. For those who know they are hot and pretty would obviously get someone who looks good with $, simply because she knows her reach. (a)Can I say that every men wants an attractive, hot and pretty gf or wife? (b)And every woman want a good looking and phsically fit bf or husband? But for those men who disagree statement (a)they are not really good looking and don't have much $ and they know their REACH! ( I used to drive a Malaysia car, but now I drive a CAMRY, I get women coming to me like water, and they are hot women) And for statement (b), if women disagree, would mean you are not attractive, not hot and dont really have a nice body as you know your REACH! Can I say that? I am just being very sincere and looking at FACTS of LIFE. The REALITY is BEAUTY/LOOKS/ATTRACTIVESS are IMPORTANT to a MEN when looking for a WOMEN. And when it comes to women, they want their MEN to be SMART and have $. To average guys: Do you think you could get a girl like Jessica Alba or Amber Chia? I am an average guy and I know my reach therefore I know I would never be able to get them. Unless, I work hard, smart and have a very good INCOME which i have now. Same goes to women. Do you think you could get a bf or husband like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, if you are fat,short and unattractive. Obviously NOT!So for girls who are that, work on your looks, work out, go for your treatments, spa or whatever to make you look good! In short, MEN need to be smart,have a good career that pays very well. Women need to be pretty, sweet,gentle and other characteristic that define a WOMEN! This to me are FACTS of LIFE. It's sad but true. I would say looks play an important role in a relationship. Both for men and women. However, beauty/looks are more important for women. Men on the other hand, need to only have a below average look. But, make sure you have a good career that comes along with good $!

Women would say, I don’t mind if his not rich, but trust me they do mind. To me LOVE can be bought with $, attraction can be bought with $.

I am saying this to those men who are looking for hot beautiful women. For those who disagree are not attractive because the first thing that turns you on or wanting to know that girl is her LOOKS. and if you have $ you would be able to get to her and keep her. Trust me, gals are materialistic, they might say I am not because for several reason:

1. The girl knows she is not attractive and knows her reach of what kind of men she could get
2. For those who know they are hot and pretty would obviously get someone who looks good with $, simply because she knows her reach.

(a)Can I say that every men wants an attractive, hot and pretty gf or wife?
(b)And every woman want a good looking and phsically fit bf or husband?
But for those men who disagree statement (a)they are not really good looking and don’t have much $ and they know their REACH! ( I used to drive a Malaysia car, but now I drive a CAMRY, I get women coming to me like water, and they are hot women)

And for statement (b), if women disagree, would mean you are not attractive, not hot and dont really have a nice body as you know your REACH!

Can I say that? I am just being very sincere and looking at FACTS of LIFE. The REALITY is BEAUTY/LOOKS/ATTRACTIVESS are IMPORTANT to a MEN when looking for a WOMEN. And when it comes to women, they want their MEN to be SMART and have $.

To average guys: Do you think you could get a girl like Jessica Alba or Amber Chia?

I am an average guy and I know my reach therefore I know I would never be able to get them. Unless, I work hard, smart and have a very good INCOME which i have now.

Same goes to women.

Do you think you could get a bf or husband like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, if you are fat,short and unattractive.

Obviously NOT!So for girls who are that, work on your looks, work out, go for your treatments, spa or whatever to make you look good!

In short, MEN need to be smart,have a good career that pays very well.

Women need to be pretty, sweet,gentle and other characteristic that define a WOMEN!

This to me are FACTS of LIFE. It’s sad but true.

]]> By: MO http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-8143 MO Fri, 08 Aug 2008 00:13:27 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-8143 Women who say they only want the Tall, Dark Handsome, Six Pack Abs and asshole men are absolutely the MOST SHALLOW WOMEN!! I think most of the women that want the Tall, Six Pack Abs, and asshole attitude men are the younger women that are in their early 20's or have a dad that is an asshole. When Women finally actually GROW UP, get into the "real world" they come to their senses and realize there is so much more than just Height, Six Pack Abs and asshole attitude men. Women who say they only want the Tall, Dark Handsome, Six Pack Abs and asshole men are absolutely the MOST SHALLOW WOMEN!! I think most of the women that want the Tall, Six Pack Abs, and asshole attitude men are the younger women that are in their early 20′s or have a dad that is an asshole. When Women finally actually GROW UP, get into the “real world” they come to their senses and realize there is so much more than just Height, Six Pack Abs and asshole attitude men.

]]> By: male http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-6892 male Thu, 12 Jun 2008 16:43:39 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-6892 About six months ago, I was single. Like many single males, I was tired of being single and was ready to attract new love after having two failed long term relationships during my college years. I dated many girls but none of them worked out. I found this article and was ready to try out these ideas. In addition to these techniques, I decided to take it a step further by believing that I will find someone. I remained as positive as I could, prayed, and always kept a mental image of the mate I wanted. That mental image consisted of looks, personality, and family. I also set a date a three months into the future of when I wanted this person to arrive in my life. I had complete confidence that this person was going to arrive. I actually met someone a month later! I believe one of the techniques that worked best was to be cocky in a funny way. Use light hearted jokes…but always say a “just kidding after with a laugh” Don’t be a jerk…If you have tried this and time is going by and still no one, remind yourself of these concepts. I tend to forget and go back to my old nice guys, ways all the time. I jump back to this article to keep me staying confident. Thanks for this article. About six months ago, I was single. Like many single males, I was tired of being single and was ready to attract new love after having two failed long term relationships during my college years. I dated many girls but none of them worked out.
I found this article and was ready to try out these ideas. In addition to these techniques, I decided to take it a step further by believing that I will find someone. I remained as positive as I could, prayed, and always kept a mental image of the mate I wanted. That mental image consisted of looks, personality, and family. I also set a date a three months into the future of when I wanted this person to arrive in my life. I had complete confidence that this person was going to arrive.
I actually met someone a month later! I believe one of the techniques that worked best was to be cocky in a funny way. Use light hearted jokes…but always say a “just kidding after with a laugh” Don’t be a jerk…If you have tried this and time is going by and still no one, remind yourself of these concepts. I tend to forget and go back to my old nice guys, ways all the time. I jump back to this article to keep me staying confident. Thanks for this article.

]]> By: saher http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-5485 saher Tue, 06 May 2008 12:33:23 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-5485 i think this is truly apt... i mean its actuaaly the truth. women don't like nice guys. they take them for granted. we want smart and confident guys who emerge as a winner in evry situation. i think this is truly apt… i mean its actuaaly the truth. women don’t like nice guys. they take them for granted. we want smart and confident guys who emerge as a winner in evry situation.

]]> By: Jonathon http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-3128 Jonathon Wed, 06 Feb 2008 10:41:29 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-3128 I agree with it all, because I am who you described. The fact is that it is not flawless and you have to know when 2 b funny and not 2 be. I was an alfa male but I knew when to back off and ask for her input on where she wanted to go. T also was a nice guy and paid all the time due to the fact that there is not a date in the world unless you fly to another state that a man can't pay for and not afford. if oyu can't afford it work overtime or get another job. My girl broke up with me last week and it was on emotion and now I met someone else and it turned out to be good for me. What pisses me off is that when women have the total package they always think that there is something better no matter what. I know you wpmen are saying no I love my man or my husband but the truth is my friends or I have ###### many of you that say they are so in love and would never cheat. Guys woman are gulible creatures who buy into what everyone else thinks and do not listen to there emotions. I have not and will not ever see a woman put into a certain situation and around the right guy and won't take advantage. I like the article and it's me all the way but the thing is 9 out of my ten friends do not fit that description. So should they lie be fake and be someone they are not to just in 2 months go around there family and find out that they are a wussy who is just a nice guy? This sounds like a way to get laid 1 a week but not a way to find a girl who likes you for you. I am an asshole and I will admit it and I get laid more than the next guy but it only gets you one place. A date at the all the weddings of your friends who met nice guys who were not taken for granted by shallow woman who were mature and know what they want not a fantasy that television has created. I agree with it all, because I am who you described. The fact is that it is not flawless and you have to know when 2 b funny and not 2 be. I was an alfa male but I knew when to back off and ask for her input on where she wanted to go. T also was a nice guy and paid all the time due to the fact that there is not a date in the world unless you fly to another state that a man can’t pay for and not afford. if oyu can’t afford it work overtime or get another job. My girl broke up with me last week and it was on emotion and now I met someone else and it turned out to be good for me. What pisses me off is that when women have the total package they always think that there is something better no matter what. I know you wpmen are saying no I love my man or my husband but the truth is my friends or I have ###### many of you that say they are so in love and would never cheat. Guys woman are gulible creatures who buy into what everyone else thinks and do not listen to there emotions. I have not and will not ever see a woman put into a certain situation and around the right guy and won’t take advantage. I like the article and it’s me all the way but the thing is 9 out of my ten friends do not fit that description. So should they lie be fake and be someone they are not to just in 2 months go around there family and find out that they are a wussy who is just a nice guy? This sounds like a way to get laid 1 a week but not a way to find a girl who likes you for you. I am an asshole and I will admit it and I get laid more than the next guy but it only gets you one place. A date at the all the weddings of your friends who met nice guys who were not taken for granted by shallow woman who were mature and know what they want not a fantasy that television has created.

]]> By: sanjay http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/what-women-want-in-men.php/comment-page-1#comment-2889 sanjay Thu, 27 Dec 2007 06:05:25 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/what-women-want-in-men.php#comment-2889 hey, nice article. i agree with everything said above. its the feeling of security women wants. and complemtns works magic everytime. but extra compliments have created problem and that time I am taken for granted. complimenting other women befoe complimenting your girl is a better idea i guess first igniting jealousy and then praising means alot for girls i have met. and then they are ready to ptove those comliments yes try this naturally. compliment for other girl comes ot spontaneously is good idea. and yes i am not womeniser or i am not an expert with womens. I feel the strongest and weakest part of women is they are nice fromm heart and are smarter then guys in many things. this article has proven facts which i could not theoritically explain but has happene naturally with me. and yes as one of the comments above they also want to feel important but without asking a women man should know what she wants, where she want to go. thats called caring. well another last sentence which i am translating in english. women are like ur shadows u follow them they fly away you fly away they follow you, its a saying but dont know how much true it is. hey,
nice article. i agree with everything said above. its the feeling of security women wants. and complemtns works magic everytime. but extra compliments have created problem and that time I am taken for granted. complimenting other women befoe complimenting your girl is a better idea i guess first igniting jealousy and then praising means alot for girls i have met. and then they are ready to ptove those comliments yes try this naturally. compliment for other girl comes ot spontaneously is good idea.
and yes i am not womeniser or i am not an expert with womens. I feel the strongest and weakest part of women is they are nice fromm heart and are smarter then guys in many things. this article has proven facts which i could not theoritically explain but has happene naturally with me. and yes as one of the comments above they also want to feel important but without asking a women man should know what she wants, where she want to go. thats called caring. well another last sentence which i am translating in english. women are like ur shadows u follow them they fly away you fly away they follow you, its a saying but dont know how much true it is.

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