Monday, 21 April, 2014
“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” - Carl W. Buechner

Blog

Improving Our "Signals" and "Beings"

Home » Blog » The Benefits of Communication Skills

Comment on this articleEmail this articlePrint this article

The Benefits of Communication Skills

29 November 2006 | 19:22 | Assertive Skills, Attraction, Confidence, Conflict Management, Conversation Skills, Happiness, Interpersonal Relationships, Leadership, Parenting, Success | 1 Comment
The Benefits of Communication Skills

What if I told you there was a secret to you being happy, attractive, popular, successful, understanding, in control, loving, and satisfied? What if I told you that you could get all these benefits plus more by learning a single skill?

It sounds almost too good to be true.

The skill that will give you these benefits is effective communication. In fact, the benefits of communication are too big to list here because communication enhances so many aspects of your life. Rudyard Kipling said “Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.” Guess what? Communication goes beyond words so imagine how powerful it is now?

Here are a list of communication benefits and what, why, and how this amazing skill will definitely change your life:

Gives you happiness – You’ve probably heard money can’t buy happiness. This is true. You become happy by taking the right actions. Think about it. Happiness is at the core of the actions you take. The actions you make are not happiness itself but create and surround happiness. By taking action on developing yourself you become happier. Effective communication skills make you happier by having joyous relationships, reduces anger of both parties talking, correctly expresses yourself, and other reasons.

Makes you attractive – The law of attraction states that you are a living magnet. You attract the people and resources in your life based on your internal self. Get excited because you do have invisible forces that draw and repel people. This isn’t mystical mumbo jumbo. There are many earthling factors such as communication and self development that you can control to attract people in your life. Communication goes way beyond verbal and non-verbal language. It is also the self development aspects such as confidence that create effective communication.

It is also important to know that you can turn people on like a flick of a light switch with communication. Communicating attraction gets both males and females magnetized to you. Interesting benefit, hey? Communication is what makes you interesting, it lets you connect with people, build friendships, and get partners. Pick-up artists use communication in building attraction to literally get someone they want within hours and sometimes minutes.

You become intimate – How do people become open in a relationship? Good communication of course because it is the only “bridge” between a relationship. Intimacy is about both people being open in a relationship. It is only through intimacy that a couple is able to know each other thoroughly.

More loving – This benefit of communication ties in with intimacy. You can be more loving towards your family by not only correctly communicating to them, but also through receiving their communication by using active listening skills. Showing interest in someone’s live will reciprocate their interest and love too you.

“Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.” – Rudyard Kipling

Increased popularity – While a primary goal of mine in teaching others communication isn’t to make them the best known and most liked person in their school/town/club, it is rather increasing your popularity or likeability of the people you know now. However, effective communication can definitely make you popular amongst others because your conversational skills and friendliness will sky rocket.

Successful career – John Johanson and Carrie Fried in the 2002 Teaching of Psychology Journal, asked graduates what their most useful skill was. The number one answer was interpersonal skills. Drew Appleby in a well known psychology magazine “Eye on Psi Chi” asked what job skills 39 employers desire in hiring people. Interpersonal skills were number one again. In fact, Brian Tracy (world renowned personal business consultant) in “Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life” says the highest paid form of intelligence in the United States is interpersonal intelligence. A person with such intelligence understands other’s feelings and desires, and employers are willing to pay for someone with these skills.

Relaxed – Stress is related to how we manage ourselves with the outside world. You can become more relaxed by assertively telling someone “no” if they ask you to do something you do not want to do. Also, by developing your communication and self using the techniques I teach in my newsletter, you learn to manage your emotions and thoughts to control stressful experiences.

Satisfied – You receive satisfaction when you get what you want. To get what you want, either someone gives it to you, or you get it for yourself. You cannot control what someone gives you (although you can influence), which means to become satisfied you must do it yourself or learn to relate to others. By developing your communication and self, you grow as a person enhancing your skills and creating satisfaction.

Self control – We interact with people everyday and often do things we later wish we hadn’t done. By developing self understanding (very important part in communication) you develop self control. Controlling yourself isn’t limited to stopping yourself from doing actions, but it also ‘controls’ you to do the right things.

Understand others – As you know, how we feel towards someone is all about our emotions. What often happens is you do not understand the person and their current emotions so you misunderstand them, respond inappropriately, or don’t know how they feel. By using effective communication you learn to read another person’s emotions, understand another person’s emotions, and communicate about another person’s emotions.

Understand yourself – I’m going to say this straight. If you are like most people, you do not understand yourself to your potential and it unknowingly to you hurts your life. Do you know why you behave the way you do? Do you always know what feelings you have? Why do you experience anger towards someone you love? This is why self understanding is so important in communication.

There are an abundance of further benefits to effective communication such as anger management, increased likelihood of receiving a job promotion, more persuasion, better leadership skills, and the list goes on. Hopefully now you can see the true power of communication. Let effective communication change your life today.

Sign-up now to my effective communication and self development newsletter by clicking here.


If you learned something useful from this article, please share the article with your friends, family, coworkers, and others by clicking: . You can also signup to my newsletter for more great information.

I'm creator of a highly praised program called "Communication Secrets of Powerful People" program. You can read about it here and order it here.


One Response to “The Benefits of Communication Skills”


Talk the talk! | voiceofmina
14 Apr 2011, 3:34 am

[...] skills aren’t only beneficial for improving employment opportunities, but according to communication enthusiasts, they are life-changing in many aspects; for example, they assist in areas such as attractiveness, [...]

Leave a Reply

Please read this page (it will open in a new window) before commenting. Everything you need to know about commenting can be found at that page.

Comments are closed. Please visit my new site, "Tower of Power", and find the relevant article if you would like to comment on what you've just read.

More Blog Posts You Maybe Interested In

Learning From Steve Irwin’s Personality
It's been broadcasted all over the world. It has said to be one of the most universally reported events that doesn't involve an act of terrorism.Steve Irwin's death. Otherwise known as...

Alternative Ways of Apologizing: Part 4
In part three of the course, I taught you how to apologize correctly. This part is going to teach you how to leverage part three of the course through the...

The Four Parenting Styles in Passive, Assertive, and Aggressive Behaviour
I want to firstly clear up a major parenting misconception. There is no one right way to raise a child. As with buying a car, becoming friends with your neighbours,...

 
© 2006-2014 EarthlingCommunication.com

Being Assertive in Communication and Behavior | Approaches and Techniques for Managing Conflict | How to Develop Better Conversation Skills | Effective Interpersonal Skills - Building Special Relationships | Developing Effective Skills to Listen | Become a Better Public Speaker | Importance of Self Understanding - Awareness | How to Improve Writing Skills

Ways to Attract a Man/Woman | How to Build Self-Confidence | Dealing with Grief and Loss | Finding the Key to True Happiness | Inspirational Articles, Thoughts, and Stories | Effective Skills of Great Leaders | Self Motivated for Success | Managing Stress and Relieving Anxiety | How to be Successful in Life

Advertise | Affiliates | Affiliate/Private Member Login | Website Owners | Privacy | Terms | Sitemap