Comments on: How to Start a Conversation with a Guy http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php Improving Our "Signals" and "Beings" Sun, 18 Sep 2011 15:07:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: casii http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8580 casii Tue, 20 Jan 2009 17:55:03 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8580 Im 16 and totaly in love with this guy. We started dating right after my bay and had only known him 3 days when we started dating. We dated 1 mnth and 1 week before he dumped me. He says its cause he wasn't ready. He says I might have a second chance when he's ready..... we talk on the phone 24-7.... what do I talk about tho. Its always so weird.... how can I start a convo with a guy that said he loved me and all I can think is why did he leave me.... Im 16 and totaly in love with this guy. We started dating right after my bay and had only known him 3 days when we started dating. We dated 1 mnth and 1 week before he dumped me. He says its cause he wasn’t ready. He says I might have a second chance when he’s ready….. we talk on the phone 24-7…. what do I talk about tho. Its always so weird…. how can I start a convo with a guy that said he loved me and all I can think is why did he leave me….

]]> By: Dazed and Confused http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8579 Dazed and Confused Sun, 18 Jan 2009 21:17:36 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8579 :mrgreen: I am so happy to know that I'm not the only person in the world that has problems talking to people! It makes me feel less alone! Hah. My main problem is getting the courage, and going up to a guy and talking to him. I have self confidence, but yes it's not perfect. (Nobody's is!) I just have no clue how to randomly start a conversation. What do I do like walk up to a guy at the mall and be like "So hey, I was checkin you out from the food courta, and I think you're hot." :shock: :lol: I like laugh at the thought of doing it!! Wouldn't it be weird to like just randomly say something like that?? Huh....why can't i just be an extrovert. My life would be so much easier!! lol. And the thing is...I'm a pretty talkative person once you get to know me. So why do I have trouble?? Grrr. Any suggestions would be appreciated!! Thanx. :mrgreen: I am so happy to know that I’m not the only person in the world that has problems talking to people! It makes me feel less alone! Hah.

My main problem is getting the courage, and going up to a guy and talking to him. I have self confidence, but yes it’s not perfect. (Nobody’s is!) I just have no clue how to randomly start a conversation.

What do I do like walk up to a guy at the mall and be like “So hey, I was checkin you out from the food courta, and I think you’re hot.” :shock: :lol: I like laugh at the thought of doing it!! Wouldn’t it be weird to like just randomly say something like that?? Huh….why can’t i just be an extrovert. My life would be so much easier!! lol.

And the thing is…I’m a pretty talkative person once you get to know me. So why do I have trouble?? Grrr.

Any suggestions would be appreciated!! Thanx.

]]> By: SHERRY http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8577 SHERRY Fri, 16 Jan 2009 09:14:07 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8577 17 years old, almost legal... anyhooz.. So i like this guy, and kinda dont kno what to do when im talkin to him on da fone. cant really think of topics to really talk about and i hate it when it gets all silent for like a good 2 minutes. :oops: So what is there to talk about when you're with the guy? anything????? What if the guy is quiet and doesnt really like to talk on the phone, how do you open him up and be more comfortable.... :roll: 17 years old, almost legal… anyhooz.. So i like this guy, and kinda dont kno what to do when im talkin to him on da fone. cant really think of topics to really talk about and i hate it when it gets all silent for like a good 2 minutes. :oops: So what is there to talk about when you’re with the guy? anything?????
What if the guy is quiet and doesnt really like to talk on the phone, how do you open him up and be more comfortable….
:roll:

]]> By: ME!!!!! http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8576 ME!!!!! Thu, 15 Jan 2009 04:12:48 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8576 Umm I just thought of this but if we all feel the same about all this about the akward silences and all... then y doesnt this feel any better?! :shock: Umm I just thought of this but if we all feel the same about all this about the akward silences and all… then y doesnt this feel any better?! :shock:

]]> By: rebekah http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8573 rebekah Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:30:41 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8573 im a freshman 14,and i like this guy and he's 16 my best friend has a boyfriend her boyfriends is best friends with the guy i like.I am a shy girl.When im with my friends i have no problems talking to them.But if im with my friend my friend's boyfriend,and the guy i likes there i dont like to talk cause i dont want to sound stupid or mess up and say the wrong thing. i dont know how to talk or start a conversation with guys.PLEASE help me. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HIM! im a freshman 14,and i like this guy and he’s 16
my best friend has a boyfriend her boyfriends is best friends with the guy i like.I am a shy girl.When im with my friends i have no problems talking to them.But if im with my friend my friend’s boyfriend,and the guy i likes there i dont like to talk cause i dont want to sound stupid or mess up and say the wrong thing. i dont know how to talk or start a conversation with guys.PLEASE help me. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HIM!

]]> By: Secret http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8567 Secret Sat, 03 Jan 2009 06:14:47 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8567 im fourteen, freshman. i tense up whenever im around guys and i never know what to say. my friend is really good at talking to them and she has boyfriends all the time so when she invites me places where theres guys, i feel like i am never good enough and i know i can get rid of that by having a good frame of mind but my game is horrible.. lol. i have a great personality when i am relaxed but i never seem to get better at talking to guys. can anybody reply with tips or w.e im fourteen, freshman. i tense up whenever im around guys and i never know what to say. my friend is really good at talking to them and she has boyfriends all the time so when she invites me places where theres guys, i feel like i am never good enough and i know i can get rid of that by having a good frame of mind but my game is horrible.. lol. i have a great personality when i am relaxed but i never seem to get better at talking to guys. can anybody reply with tips or w.e

]]> By: xlaurenx http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8557 xlaurenx Sun, 28 Dec 2008 15:57:31 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8557 i really like this guy - If you like him sum up the courage to just waltyz upto him towards the end of lunch when he's walking to lessons and just say " hi " or accidently brush past him . touch him on the shoulder lightly and say " oh i'm sorry ! my names ..." you can chat untill you have to go to your class and he has to go to his !!! hope it helps xx i really like this guy – If you like him sum up the courage to just waltyz upto him towards the end of lunch when he’s walking to lessons and just say ” hi ” or accidently brush past him . touch him on the shoulder lightly and say ” oh i’m sorry ! my names …” you can chat untill you have to go to your class and he has to go to his !!!

hope it helps xx

]]> By: xlaurenx http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8556 xlaurenx Sun, 28 Dec 2008 15:54:00 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8556 Ruthie - break the touch barrier . you can learn totouch him so lightly that he'll get shivers down his spine ! he'll start to get more open and less shy around you and is probadly like that because he's crazy about you. An exuse to touch him would be brushing imaginary fuzz of his jumper or touching him as you laugh (just lightly on the shoulder) xhope it helpsx Ruthie – break the touch barrier . you can learn totouch him so lightly that he’ll get shivers down his spine ! he’ll start to get more open and less shy around you and is probadly like that because he’s crazy about you. An exuse to touch him would be brushing imaginary fuzz of his jumper or touching him as you laugh (just lightly on the shoulder)

xhope it helpsx

]]> By: xlaurenx http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8555 xlaurenx Sun, 28 Dec 2008 15:49:28 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8555 I ItWorthIt? - I personally think that you should be there for him when he splits up and don't try anything with him unless he has split with her . you wouldn't want people blaming you and him being upset if she split with him . he might blame you also and not only would you lose your chances but a friend also. i think you should wait for him but push him to the back of your mind . there's gotta be someone out there who's free and despretely in love with you x hope it helps x I ItWorthIt? – I personally think that you should be there for him when he splits up and don’t try anything with him unless he has split with her . you wouldn’t want people blaming you and him being upset if she split with him . he might blame you also and not only would you lose your chances but a friend also.

i think you should wait for him but push him to the back of your mind . there’s gotta be someone out there who’s free and despretely in love with you x hope it helps x

]]> By: xlaurenx http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php/comment-page-1#comment-8554 xlaurenx Sun, 28 Dec 2008 15:36:11 +0000 http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/2006/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy.php#comment-8554 you should arrange for you to meet up at a cinema on a saturday with a couple of other friends. whether it be in the morning afternoon or evening it doesn't matter. This will give you an exuse to call him and maybe after you've finished talking about the meet up you can start to talk about how his christmas was , what he got , if he's doing anything for new year, and ( after you've been to the cinema ) if he enjoyed the film . You could also ask him about any other films he's seen and talk about music. Most guys have a greattaste in music andyou will usually have at least heard of 1 band he likes. Maybe if things go well you could even ask him to play you it or meet up for a concert date . hope it's helpful x from Lauren. you should arrange for you to meet up at a cinema on a saturday with a couple of other friends. whether it be in the morning afternoon or evening it doesn’t matter. This will give you an exuse to call him and maybe after you’ve finished talking about the meet up you can start to talk about how his christmas was , what he got , if he’s doing anything for new year, and ( after you’ve been to the cinema ) if he enjoyed the film . You could also ask him about any other films he’s seen and talk about music. Most guys have a greattaste in music andyou will usually have at least heard of 1 band he likes. Maybe if things go well you could even ask him to play you it or meet up for a concert date .

hope it’s helpful x from Lauren.

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